Have You Hit a Wall?

She is a force of nature. Writing a book. Building her business. Developing her community.

Her job? She helps women discover their voice and step into leadership.

She is a shark: moving constantly and getting stuff D.O.N.E.

Her energy is endless. Others marvel at what she gets done. Some are put off by her intense determination. But nothing stops her.

Until it does. Then she hits a wall.

You know the type of wall: suddenly, inertia. Paralysis.

Then comes the self-loathing and self-judgment. Ever been there?

Working together last week, I noticed a sense of defeat surrounding her. A lull in energy. A lack of clarity – very unlike her.

I asked, “What do you need?”

That stopped her in her tracks, and she looked up at me in shock.

“I don’t know. Nobody’s asked me that in a long time.”

“So. Let’s figure it out. What do you need?”

I asked her some questions.

We dug around, playing with ideas. In 30 short minutes, she worked through what she needed and created a plan to get back her energy.

Her sparkle.

She is a giver. Some might say she’s an over-giver, extending herself to make sure everyone else has exactly what they need.

And sometimes she crashes and forgets that she has needs, too.

Forgets to ask for what she needs.

Sometimes – she doesn’t even know what she needs.

Remind you of anyone you know? [wink wink]

Maybe you’ve lost your energy, your sparkle, your momentum. Maybe you’re worn out and tired of doing this alone.

Maybe you’re dying for someone to ask, “What do you need?”

So, I’m asking. What do you need?

Put your hands on your heart, take a deep breath in, and ask yourself that question. “What do I need?”

What answer shows up?

Sometimes it’s loud & strong – and then you get to work getting it!

Sometimes it’s quiet & indistinct – and then you get to work listening for clarity.

But sometimes it’s silent. Or muffled. And you need some help pulling it out.

That help could be someone to ask the right question, lend an ear, and support your mission. If you could use any of that, reach out!

In a free Discovery Session, let’s see what we can pull up for you in 45 minutes.

I’m continually blown away by what my Discovery clients find out about themselves in such a short period of time!

And then? Off you go, back on your path, moving toward that thing that you want, you need, you crave, you desire.

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